1) you aren’t compassionate sufficient 2) you’re judgmental 3) you’re controlling 4) insert normal individual reaction to abused/used/manipulated/etc that is being. and spin it in an adverse light .the disordered will always make use of your emotional reactivity with their provocation against you. It’s a catch 22, and also the only option would be to leave the overall game. Well written Gab. Final two sentences will be the truth that is inescapable must.. Read More